I have implemented my own rule to be part of Dd/ttwd. It has been used a few times so far. If, I have a subject that needs to be discussed that could lead to me appearing to "top from the bottom", I kneel in front of him. Though, some may see this as something they could not do, I find it to enhance ttwd and to visually express my submission to both him and myself.
Something like this.
Jim needs to know that I am not trying to dictate his control of a situation. He needs to know that I remember who is in charge and that he is capable. It is an understandable need for the man that bares the weight of the stress in our lives. It is the most effective way for me to say 'I support you no matter what'.
At first, it was awkward and both of us suppressed a laugh as I tried to slowly and sexily kneel before him, trying to be sexy never works as it should! Over time, this ritual has become easy (dare I say even sexy)?
Yep, that looks about right.
The act of kneeling is both metaphoric and symbolic. It is humbling, and oddly enough calming to the mind. It is something I do for no other, it is an action reserved only for him. Often times, I wonder if any of you do something like this for your spouse?